50th Birthday

 10 September 2026

My 50th birthday ...........I just could not believe the birthday I had. Woohhhooohhhh.................... My goodness what planning, what precision and what co-ordination by three of my sweetest.

Let me start from the midnight of 9th September. I had no idea what was going to be the plan for midnight. I had told many times to Kavita that even my 50th birthday should be like any other birthday. But I was about to get the pleasant surprise today. 

As usual I went to bed by 10:30 or may be even earlier. Rutuja, Neil, Kavita were waiting for me to hit the bed. They ensured the wall in the living room is decorated with lots of balloons and jazzy flowing sliver linings along with HAPPY BIRTHDAY sign. They wore the special t-shirts with my younger days pictures printed on it. Brilliant idea.

Right at the stroke of midnight, Rutuja, Neil, Kavita, Aai, Dada and to my utter surpise Vedu and Vidya woke me up from my slumber and started wishing happy birthday for me. I was trying to grasp what is going on. So after couple of moments I realized it is the start of my 50th birthday. It was such a cool feeling to wake up in the middle of night and greeted by birthday wishes. The cake cutting at midnight was the start of a cracking day in store. The happiness was clearly visible on my face. You may wanna check this photo

After the chitchat for around an hour and half with everyone, I really struggled to go to sleep. I thought this is the birthday done. How wonderfully wrong I was.

In the afternoon when I rerturned home, I was busy replying to messages received on WhatsApp and calling people back who were calling to wish me on my birthday. Was actually busy opening the bouquets and cakes from Vipul and Vaibhav, gifts from Vaishu and gifts from Tathes. I understood why children are so happy when they open the gifts. My entusiasm was no less than a child's. 

Kavita cajoled me in going out for dinner. When I asked her if I shall do the booking, she refused. I did not understood that aspect, but I just decided to go with the flow. They asked me to drive to The Caravan Menu restaurant in Thane. They had invited Suresh, Deepu & family and Tathe family for the wonderfully organized dinner.

I was just soaking in the atmosphere of my birthday. It was such a fantastic feeling to see all of them waiting for all of us before we head to dinner. I was treated like a rockstar for rest of the evening. The food beginning with starters just kept getting better and better. I did not hold myself back in savouring the food. I believe amongst all of us Dadu Dada and Rugved enjoyed the food the most. It was absolutely fulfilling experience. Vedu was zapped after seeing how many prawns I actually finished. Three generations of people were enjoying the great ocassion of my 50th birthday. This was the whole gang for the great ocassion.

I received loads and loads of gifts from everyone and I was simply dazed or simply overwhelmed. I really tried hard to control my tears rolling down my cheeks, now I know what is meaning of Khushi ke aansoo....But I did well I guess. 

I used to feel that my birthday was a special day but there was hardly anything else on that day. I always used to wonder what's the fuss about birthdays and why do people celebrate milestone birthdays. I felt why to wait for gifting someone on their birthday and why it can't be done on other days. For me it was "No Dramas" mate type of feeling. 

However when Rutuja was busy doing all the prep and Kavita overseeing her prep and Neil chipping in with his ideas, it must have taken a lot of efforts. They not only reached out to my friends and gathered their thoughts for me, but put me on a special edition of my own Vogue magazine. 

Now, even in my wildest imaginary creation, I would never put myself on the cover of Vogue. Beat that.....

Rutuja, Kavita and Neil have reached out to many of my friends to collect wishes for my 50th special birthday. This Vogue Magazine featuring Yogesh Mahajan and lovely wishes from Rohit, Rohan, Aayaa, Mangs, Vaibhav, Amol, Suresh, Vaishu, Vedu, Deepu, Aai, Dada, and two of my rockstars Neil and Rutuja. Everyone was very very kind to pour their heartfelt words for me. It was an absolutely amazing and out of the world feeling to know that you are such a nice human being.

I enjoyed the roasting by Neil the most. Many people over years have pulled my leg but getting one from your own son, is simply giggling feeling. It was absolutely hilarious. The note from the editor, Rutuja was as usal heart touching and eloquent and clearly showing that she is studying in St. Xavier's. I mean it sweets. 

This magazine was the last gift of the day and certainly the most precious gift I have recieved on the day or till this day.

I feel so grateful that Bappa has shown me this day. 

As usually has happend with me, even when I would have described to Bappa about how I wanted my 50th birthday or on so many other things in my life, I could not have got what Bappa gave me on each and every occassion. So the best thing is to stay grateful.

Heartfelt thanks to my three rockstars Kavita, Neil and Rutuja. And just a wee little thanks to my better version as I call her, my Rutuja. You have done so much for this day to make sure I will never forget my 50th birthday. 

One for my original sweetheart who always stays in the background and really prefers to take zero credit for so many great things in my life. I don't know how my life would have been without my Kavita. She is the glue who is holding the entire family together. Isn't that unselfish, caring and so loving. She is just busy doing what she does best and that is Loving her family without anything in return.

Tere bina zindagi se koi shikawa nahi...Tere bina zindagi bhi lekin zindagi nahi...Love you OS.

I love my Rutuja, I love my Neil, I love my Kavita and I love my family !!!!

20 th Marriage Anniversary

 24 Nov 2024

It was a leisurely Sunday on 24 November 2024. Our husband wife relationship was now 20 years old. It doesn’t feel like that though. 😊

We had it in mind for some time to celebrate this day and create good memories. The morning was a great start with we wishing each other “Happy Marriage Anniversary”. 

I had plans to please Kavita like no other day and was willing to do anything for her as she pleased. We started our day by seeking blessings from our parents and loads of good wishes from them. 

Thambi being one of her favourite places for breakfast, it was a no brainer. We had sumptuous dosas for breakfast. One more tick. Then we proceeded to Thane to pick Deepu’s car. It was nice to get wishes from everyone in Thane including Rugved.

From there to go and pick up the Gold ring was also another thing which pleased us. In our car, in a filmy way I put the ring on Kavita’s finger and asked her to be with me for as long as we can. It might sound cheesy, but my Kavita was very happy. One more tick.

Then we decided to go to Kopineshwar Mandir in Thane, this was the first mandir we had visited when we had been engaged if I recall correctly. We were pleased to find a parking in the mandir premise and then seeking blessings from divine powers. It was little nostalgic but One more tick. 

I had insisted to go to a real cool and nice place for our lunch and chose ITC Maratha for our special lunch. There we went on to have really good fish dishes.  It was an absolutely classy and plush restaurant. It was such a lovely gesture from restaurant to offer the cake for our anniversary. I had just casually mentioned it to the captain when we walked in to the restaurant. Thank you ITC Maratha for making our special day even more special. One huge tick. 

From there we wanted to have more seafood and then decided to head to Gajalee Juhu. We had our quota of fish and prawns biryani. I chose this place and requested Kavita to taste it. It was just about okayish. There I got glimpse of Kohli’s 30 th test century in the Perth test match of India’s tour of Australia. One big tick for me.

We were very full with all the dishes we had so far, but still decided to head to Natural’s Juhu outlet. It was a guilt free eating day so we treated ourselves to cheesecake and ice cream. Kavita loves her mango ice cream but my choice of cheesecake sundae just floored her. One nice and cool tick for us. 

With all the great memories and nice food and most certainly the company of each other we had a wonderful wonderful day to cap off our special 20 th Marriage Anniversary. We both were mighty pleased with the day.

Thank you Bappa for giving this wonderful day to us and all the life leading to this day. Please keep us blessed for the rest of our lives with all the health and happiness !!!

Rutuja's Orientation in St. Xavier's

 4-Aug-2023

Today, on 4-Aug-2023, I attended Rutuja's orientation session in her college, St. Xavier's. I was pretty excited about this session. I had almost a similar feeling when I attended her first parent interaction in her school way back in 2010, feels like ages ago.

We got ready for a 9' o clock session and left in our car. Rutuja was reluctant to take Kavita along since the notice clearly mentioned only one parent is allowed. It turned out to be a wise decision. 

In the central hall of the college, there were more than 600 people including students. We were greeted by Chairman of the college Fr. Keith, Principal of College Dr. Rajendra Shinde & Vice Principal Savio D'souza & Vaishali Mohumi. 

The orientation session started with anthem of St. Xavier's college. I was really excited to hear the anthem & the line "you helped me become more me".  All the speakers emphasized on the legacy of the college, its values and off course the modern and liberal culture of the college. It was a nice session with all information about history of college, curriculum, gymkhana, library, exam pattern and student exchange programs with foreign universities. 

They spoke very highly about illustrious alumni who made the college even more famous. It included politicians, solicitors, businessmen, scholars, sportsperson, actors and people from almost all walks of life. They also talked about how college has consistently retained its top rankings in various surveys. Session was nicely interspersed with funny puns. It is easily the best college for Arts stream in Mumbai if not in India. 

Rutuja was also nervous like most, if not all the students. These students were all soaking in the feeling that now they belong to this prestigious institute. They must be feeling overjoyed and nervous at same time, since it is now their responsibility to take the legacy forward. 

Me & Rutuja then took a tour of whole building & also the school building where Rutuja is most likely to attend her college lectures. The library & canteen were obviously two most crowded places with youngsters all around. Very refreshing to see the youngsters with all fashionable clothes, shoes, hair styles and accessories. It was lovely to explore the college having basket ball court & volley ball court right in the center of the building. It has a very classical heritage structure & perfectly suitable for 154 Year old college. 

Just like I was very satisfied after attending very first orientation session in her school, I was mighty happy to be along side her in the college orientation. And needless to say, mighty happy with the choice of college she had made. She studied really hard to achieve an excellent score of 98% (97.6 precisely) with dream of getting into the St. Xavier's. She has finally ticked that box. 

Dear Rutuja, may you enjoy all the college life with curricular, co-curricular & extra-curricular activities in this great institution. I am certainly very pleased with the college & I really hope you will be even a better person when you graduate from this lovely institution. 

God Bless you, Rutuja. May you achieve all that is in your destiny with the necessary hard work & honesty.

And I am thankful to almighty for showing this day. Thank you Dear God.

I pray to almighty that give me a chance to write similar feelings in few years time about her orientation session in some foreign university in Europe, US or anywhere else in the world. Amen !!!

Rutuja's Felicitation

Today, 18-Jun-2023, Rutuja gave a wonderful Father's Day Gift.

After scoring 97.6 % in her Class X CBSE, which I had rounded up to 98%, she was extremely happy and we all were even more happier. Topping in Sanskrit & Social Science in entire CBSE, by scoring perfect 100, was icing on the cake.

On insistence of Kavita, we had got Rutuja into Shobha's tuitions. This was done after much of necessary research by Kavita through her sources & fact findings. Just like so many others, it turned out to be a wonderful decision. During the Class IX itself, she had found her gear & was much relaxed in her studies & way of tutoring. Rutuja worked extremely hard & studied with great intentions. She told us that she feels her marks would be in the range of 90-95 maximum. However on the result day, she was stunned to know her score of 98%.

Shobha's had arranged felicitation for all the students who had scored above 85%. Obviously Rutuja was going to be one of the awardees. Me and Kavita were more excited than her. We were bubbling with all the enthusiasm, for the day. As usual, Rutuja was calm, collected and unfazed about it. 

Felicitation function started from around 10:00 AM & went up to 1:30 PM, interspersed with students being called upon to receive their medals, trophies and a small memento. She was called twice to receive the medals for scoring perfect 100 marks in Sanskrit & Social Science. I was unbelievably emotional seeing her on the stage. 

But Rutuja was again, very cool, not emotional at all. She was obviously happy with the medals but not too much emotional at all. This has to be the way. And more surprisingly, I found out that all the students were pretty much cool & much in the same mental space as Rutuja was. I was not able to relate due to my overwhelming emotions.  

When she was called on the stage for receiving her trophy, I was struggling to hold myself together again due to being overly emotional. But Rutuja & all the other students were happy, calm & not at all fazed by the occasion. Most of the kids were just plain in the moment, clicking pics, posting on Social media & putting filters on their photos for Instagram. I felt so annoyed that kids were so engrossed in mobile more than the function. But that is probably the way of this generation. There is nothing absolutely wrong or perfectly right in this, but I certainly felt little odd.

Rutuja received her trophy to a thunderous round of applause. Both parents were called on the stage during her felicitation & I have never felt prouder being Dadda. I was almost on the cusp of shedding happy tears but I managed to hold myself composed. Rutuja with her couple of medals around the neck & trophy in hand took lots of pictures with her teachers. All of them were very gracious & chatted so very nicely to us. Kavita did so much well than being on the emotional front. She was just simply happy & overjoyed. Simply smiling with all the happenings of the day. May be I have so much to learn from her. And may there be more such occasion where Rutuja will be awarded & we as a parent will witness those moments...Insha Allah :) 

But in overall, it was a beautiful co-incidence that function was held on Father's day & there was never a better Father's day gift to a dad by Rutuja.   

I remember writing a blog when I attended first meeting in school when we got Rutuja into New Horizon Public School. I very clearly remember the joyful emotions on that very day, good 14-15 years ago. It is a perfect end that her school life is wrapped up with awards from Shobha's for securing wonderful marks in Class X. 

Love you Rutuja for giving this wonderful moment.            

Sachin's 50th Birthday

 24-Apr-2023

Happy birthday Master Blaster !!! Wishing the god of indian cricket a healthy, happy 50th birthday.

Thank you for giving us such wonderful memories all over the years. It has been absolutely delightful & cherished memories all along.

I was reading a marathi news paper yesterday in which whole supplement was dedicated to wish Sachin on his 50th birthday. There were couple of articles in there by photographers who had photographed him over the years.

Both the articles were referring Sachin in plural form i.e. In Marathi it is called as aadararthi bahuwachan e.g. Tyanni tya match madhey ek chaan innings khelat hote. Tyanni jawoon Acharekar Siranchi bhet ghetali. Tyanni hee ad keli...

It was so weird to read Sachin's name like that. All over the years, we all have referred him as Sachin, Tendlya, Sacchhu or simply Tendulkar. We always felt as if he is still that 16 year old who made in debut in 1989 and he never grew beyond that for us. We all considered and will consider him as one of our own & never felt like we should call him that way especially in marathi. 

So I felt, it is nice to scribble this down on the special day.

Once again Sachin Tendulkar, many wishes for your birthday. May you be blessed with all the health & happiness. You keep giving us beautiful memories which you have been doing over the years.

India Pak T20 World Cup MCG

 23-Oct-2022

The match between India-Pakistan in T20 World Cup 2022 preceded with its usual hype. It was scheduled for 23-Oct-2022 and was billed as War minus shooting. But as compared to some over-the-top advertisement in previous encounters, this time it seemed pretty reasonable. Probably since Pakistan have beaten India couple of times in recent matches, advertisers would have taken it bit easy.

It was a Sunday during the Diwali times, so the mood was upbeat for all of us. India Pakistan encounters, no matter what, where, when, after how long, are always a matter of temperament. After watching so many Ind-Pak matches, its fair to say that the skill factor just goes out of the window during these tense matches. The team which has more belief prevails. Even this match had its usual up-down, pendulum swinging moments which is more of expected in tense matches. 

But King Kohli was in his zone that day. In spite of having asking rate of around 12 for last 10 overs which shot up to 16 for last 3 overs, Kohli batted like a man possessed. It was pure genius at work on that day. He took down the best of the Pakistan fast bowlers with full guts & he had the skills to match it. No mean a feat, to hit bowlers to boundaries when asking rate is 16 and they are breathing fire with 145+ speed. It was a sheer delight to witness. 

Like most of us, I had lost all my hopes when India were 31-4 in 6 odd overs. Kohli & Pandya had the belief. They had the confidence to take it deep & then see how it goes. Kudos to such planning & hats off to execution. They had everything going against them but they simply kept pushing themselves, simply kept the faith in each other, simply kept converting singles into two. The audacity of some shots especially two sixes of the best bowler of the day was the swing of the momentum. 

Kohli, who has been through some slump for last couple of years, was always going to be judged by the high standards he has set for himself. Anything short of those lofty standards are treated as failures. The weight of expectations, the weight of hopes of so many people, I am sure only Sachin Tendulkar must have felt something closer to that. The doubters, the nigh sayers, the armchair critics everyone had already seen the writing on the wall. 

But one man who refused to buy that was standing in the middle. He had some of his own ideas, some of his own skills. Coupled with supreme fitness & unshakeable faith in his ability. King Kohli dragged the match out of Pakistan's throat & made it one of the best nights MCG had witnessed.  

Doing it in front of 90,000 plus fans in the biggest of ground in Australia, the G, against the old rivals when chips were totally down, was really a stuff of dreams.

Seems like I have exhausted all my emotions in the first match itself. Irrespective of what happens with Team India in the remaining world cup, this innings will be remembered as one of the greatest ever played in cricket.

Thank You Virat Kohli for the unforgettable day. 

2021 - A year that was

 2021 - What a year this has been.

Started with all the fears of corona virus multiplied to a factor of two. With hardly anything in sight to guess if & when this crisis will end. But vaccines provided a glimmer of hope and we all were so thankful that we could now fight with this deadly virus. It must have been a gigantic efforts for governments to manage these vaccination programs. That said, the virus still remained a threat with second wave in the later part of the year.

For me personally, year kicked off with Amol guiding me to Freedom From Diabetes program. It was much needed for me as my sugar levels had shot up to real bad levels. The year long program was quite comprehensive and tough to follow. With diets, exercise, medicines and much support from FFD, I was able to follow different phases of program. No words are enough to thank Kavita for the hard work she did for all my diet related changes. It was awesome from her. Thank you Sweetheart for all those efforts.

The toughest phase was first six months of Vegan phase. This was really hard to follow especially sacrificing meat, chicken, rice, khichadi, eggs, bakery products, dairy products and simply sticking to pure green vegetables & spices. But again it was worth since it brought my diabetes under control so much so that I was free of all medicines by month of September.

On professional front, I had been looking for opportunities outside OFSS. Finally after much of search and utilizing all my resources, I was able to land up a job with Odessa. The lure of working from home for perpetuity was the biggest clincher for me. The role of being a part of architecture team was enticing and I hope I will be able to contribute to best of my ability.

On family front, it was nice to spend this much of time with Rutuja, Neil, Kavita, Mom & Dad. Happiest of the lot must be Kavita :) She enjoyed me being at home. Going for a walk with me in the evening, Doing Yoga with me in the morning. Few outings like Taj Palace, Yacht ride in colaba and Saputara picnic were nice highlights to end the year. Trip to native place for couple of marriages were a nice change from the daily routine.

In summary, no regrets, no resolutions just simple gratitude for being able to see through 2021 and looking forward to 2022 !